Q&A Forum - June 2012

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Another thing I might do the night before or the day of a D&S session is I might have him polish my leather boots. I may have him clean and polish my boots, as this will draw out his fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing. Or maybe I will make him wash some of my panties by hand.

I'll assign clever chores for him that will stir his submission and also arouse him. I may tease him often, making sure I walk around the house naked or wearing very little. Again, the denial process will cause him to become aroused and submissive顺从 — willing to obey with very little effort.

Once the time comes for a session, I will first prepare for the session by dressing sexy and getting myself in a dominant and bitchy mood. That is easy for me but some women may want to give themselves little self-talks in the mirror, as they admire their own fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing-clad bodies. I do this from time to time. I might say things like, "I am so sexy. I look so hot. I feel extremely dominant. I can't wait to drive my husband to his knees and have him worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service me. I have a masterpiece for a body. Sex is for the woman's pleasure. My husband is so pussy阴部 — the vulva-whipped and I have him wrapped around my little finger. There is no doubt who rules this relationship and I will further his submission to me this very night."