Q&A Forum - June 2012

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I will get his mind to equate the soft and sexy tone of my voice with tender caresses and the stern tone of my voice with the discipline. This will work for my advantage later on when I may switch it up and all of a sudden use my stern voice. He will flinch and expect the whip but it might not come. This is a classic example of pushing his buttons and playing mind games with him.

During this discipline session, I will at some point change implements. I may switch from the flogger多尾鞭 — a whip with many tails to the riding crop马鞭 — a short whip or I may switch from the crop to a leather paddle. If I want to be severe, I will break out the strap and the cane. I may rotate between tools of discipline and he will not know what is coming next, the crop, the paddle or the strap.

I might position my body so that my strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness dildo假阳具 — a toy shaped like a penis is on the same level as his head. Then I may make him suck it as an exercise of humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose. Perhaps after the discipline session, I will take him with the strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness. Again, I will probably play with his mind. I will be playful and erotic as I put on a pair of latex乳胶 — shiny rubber used for tight clothes gloves. I will allow him to see me apply lubrication to my fingers and then make him wait in anticipation before I explore him and penetrate him. The key is to build the anticipation. Make him expect it and make him crave it.