Q&A Forum - June 2013 (Best of Elise)

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Again, only you can choose your path. If you want to put your dominant desires on hold for a season so you can pursue a relationship with this man, that is your call. But I would not marry him unless you can be totally honest with him. He needs to know you, how you really are, so prior to marriage you owe it to him, and more importantly to yourself, to be truthful to him about what you desire.

Who knows, you may be surprised. After all, why should you have to sacrifice who you are to be with him? If he loves you as much as you love him, why shouldn’t he sacrifice by agreeing to explore female domination with you? The odds are greater that he will willingly embrace the submissive顺从 — willing to obey role than they are that you can give up the dominant role. And there is the chance that he will decide that you two are not compatible. But wouldn’t you want to know this sooner than later? You need to find this out prior to marriage.