Q&A Forum - June 2013 (Best of Elise)

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Now, after he has installed the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device, have him pleasure you. Have him bathe you, have him pour you a glass of wine so you can enjoy it while he bathes you, have him give you a massage按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it, have him dress you in lingerie情趣内衣 — women's fancy underwear, have him light scented candles, have him read poetry to you, and finally have him make love to every inch of your body with his mouth and tongue and have him orally service you for as long as you want. He will be excited because he is in the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device and you will be getting your needs met.

Have these sessions twice a week, or more if you have the time. What you will discover is that your creativity will become unleashed and during the week, perhaps at work or when you are driving in the car, you will have thoughts and ideas of what you might want to try during the next bedroom session. You might want to give him a spanking or you might want him to paint your toenails, or you might want to try something you read on my site or on another site or in someone’s book.

Creativity will come when you are relaxed and having fun. So make your bedroom sessions all about you. If your husband wants a real FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship, he will get with the program and I suspect he will have just as much fun as you do. A submissive顺从 — willing to obey man is most fulfilled and satisfied when he is tending to the needs of a woman. Best wishes!