Q&A Forum - June/July 2017

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One must never lose sight that there is a positive way to humiliate a man and a destructive way to humiliate a man. The destructive way is dangerous as a wounded male ego can drive a man to work harder to inflate that ego. Many insecure males who were wounded by a woman have wrecked much havoc in this world. Men have been known to destroy others all in the quest to find acceptance from a woman. This was motivated by the fragile male ego.

Humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play within a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship can be a positive experience for a man. It is beneficial for a man to have his ego shattered within the secure confines of relationship with a woman he loves. Intense humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play can help a man to surrender his pride and to be humbled in such a way that he can than receive love and nurturing from the very woman who has wounded him. Then he can be edified in a healthy and productive manner. The submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature of man is often trapped behind the male outer shell of the male ego. Sometimes a woman must crack that shell in order to free the man inside. That is the proper application of humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play.

Q. Dear Ms Sutton, I've read Your site and noted that You believe that the male in the Female Dominant relationship should be kept in chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm. I am submissive顺从 — willing to obey but I am also single. Is chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm something that I should practice even though I am not in a relationship? If so, do You have any recommendation on how frequently, if at all, I should have an orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax?