Q&A Forum - June/July 2017

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The key is not to try too hard. Single men who are shy often make the mistake of trying too hard instead of just being themselves. Do you want to attract women? Here are some life secrets. First, have good hygiene. Your appearance is important when you first meet new people. Be clean and dress nice. Women notice a man who wears nice clothes and who has a sharp appearance. Body odor and bad breath are the biggest turn offs so make sure you practice good hygiene.

Second, smile! A smile portrays that you are happy and women will be drawn to that.

Third, be a gentleman. Go out of your way to treat women with respect. Women are also looking and a man who is kind and considerate separates himself from the pack. You can be quiet and shy and still be a gentleman. In fact, women like a good listener and that is another area where your shyness can be an asset. So fourth, be interested in a woman’s life and be a good listener.

Fifth, do not be overly picky. See a woman for her potential and her inner beauty and not just her outward beauty. And finally and above all, just be yourself. Don’t be phony and don’t pretend to be what you are not.