Q&A Forum - June/July 2017

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Q. Hello Elise, I have only recently begun to understand that this lifestyle suits me. I mean really recently. I think that it has always been under the surface but I did not let it out. I have looked back on my life a great deal lately and I realize from things I see that I am dominant. Although I have a very long way to go I am trying to take your advice about taking care of myself and dressing and yes, it makes a difference in how I feel. It’s incredible. I haven't read your book yet but I will.

The reason I contacted you is regarding the male that actually helped me open my eyes to what I want and to who I am. He is someone new to me so that is a risk but he is what helped open the doors to what I am feeling. He has said that he wants to serve me and to learn with me about this lifestyle. He says he has never had an experience like this before. Although he knows terms that I am only finding as I research. This is making me unsure if he is authentic. He tends to do things that I think he knows upsets me (almost rude) and I almost feel like he does it on purpose to provoke me. I can't decide if this is all a joke with him or what. I tend to have a distrusting nature so I’m wondering if that is kicking in.