Library Elise Sutton

Q&A Forum - June 2019 (Best of Elise)

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You need to learn to let go. This will be good for you because it will teach you to trust her in areas you have never trusted another individual since you were a child. You will learn to trust her with your body, with your mind, with your money and with many other areas of your life that you have held to yourself. This lifestyle will allow you the chance to bond with your wife in so many new and exciting ways.

Will you have challenges? Yes. Will you have struggles and doubts? Yes. Will every experience be positive for you? No. But you will grow as a man and you will know your wife with an intimacy you have never experienced before with another woman. Anytime you put your heart out there you can get hurt and become disappointed. There are no guarantees but wasn’t that the same with marriage? To love someone you must learn to trust someone and anytime you trust someone, you open yourself up to be hurt. But without the risk, there can be no true intimacy. What good is marriage if you refuse to give a woman your heart?