Q&A Forum - June 2019 (Best of Elise)

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The bottom line is that you are growing and you like being treated like a Goddess女神 — a woman treated as divine and you like being served by your husband. But you are not yet comfortable with some of the D&S bedroom activities. You are not alone and my advice to you is the same I gave in an earlier post. Get in the habit of making the bedroom about your pleasure and what you want. Think of the bedroom as your place to relax while your husband serves your whims. Don’t think about it as you fulfilling his fantasies.

In the earlier reply I suggested the wife order a CB3000 because her husband enjoyed the feeling of being denied. You could also do this or you could do something else that would fit with what your husband desires. What excites him? Leather? Boots? Chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm? Give him a taste of his fantasy in order to motivate him but only as means of getting him to serve you. You both need to change your focus. The bedroom is about the woman’s pleasure and that might mean massages按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it, body worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service, romantic encounters, or whatever you desire.