Q&A Forum - June 2019 (Best of Elise)

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Now my Wife believes any limit to her power is to be removed as our mutual love has matured. Now she thinks it is time for my parents to know about our relationship. I desire to give such a public statement of my wife’s superiority but I am scared and fear the humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose. She is also a bit apprehensive but she wants them to realize that this is good for me and to make a statement that this is how a marriage should be.

We are considering demonstrating how happy I am being her servant, in that we go to my parents for dinner and I speak only when she gives me permission. She would call me 'obedient hubby', which is her pet name for me.

Do you approve this approach? Do you have experience of other couples facing the same situation?

A. No, I do not approve of this approach. What you will end up doing is humiliating your parents. They deserve your respect because they raised and sacrificed for you. Practice your lifestyle in private or in front of others that you know are open-minded, but do not risk offending your parents, who probably will not understand the depths of your relationship.