Q&A Forum - June 2019 (Best of Elise)

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I have a delightful boyfriend, he is usually well-mannered, gentle, polite, generous and appreciative of all my attributes. He is a great, unselfish lover. He loves my lingerie情趣内衣 — women's fancy underwear & finds me beautiful in heels! However he is from a country where Female Domination is more-or-less unheard of as a concept (though his respect for Ladies runs deep and is inbred within him). He doesn't know about my identity as a mostly-online-Dominant-Lady! I have a website and numerous 'boys' under my virtual thumb.

We watched a TV program recently which explored BDSM practices and Mistresses女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner. He asked me why anyone would do this and I explained to the best of my ability how lots of men require to give up their 'power' to women etc, He replied that he couldn't imagine doing that.....

I have very subtly tried to sound him out about Female Domination in the past and I believe that he is not sexually submissive顺从 — willing to obey, or rather he has no 'kinks性癖 — an unusual sexual taste' in that department! I would love it if he did but alas....

He acknowledges in his humorous way that *I* am the Boss of our relationship and he is certainly helpful and deferential to Women especially. I have him wash my hair in the bath, massage按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it me and do some chores for me (he does not live with me).