Q&A Forum - June 2019 (Best of Elise)

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A. Lets take a step back and look at the purpose of a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship. It is about your husband meeting your needs. It is not about you becoming the fulfillment of his fantasies. Ok, we know that your husband enjoys teasing and denial games and he wants to experience chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm, as to some men chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm is nothing more than an extension of a teasing and denial game. Well, that is not the purpose of chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm. The purpose of chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm within a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship is to train the man. If he enjoys it, all the better, but the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm is for the woman’s benefit (i.e. the denied man is more focused on his woman, the denied man is easier to train, the denied man is not dishonoring his Mistress女主人 — a woman who leads a submissive partner via unauthorized orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax). Do you see the difference?

You are inhibited because you are not comfortable being the fulfillment of your husband’s fantasies. It comes down to attitude and in this case it is your attitude that must be examined. You are putting pressure on yourself to enjoy D&S in the bedroom because you want to please your husband. There is nothing wrong with that but your attitude needs to be re-focused on your pleasure. That should be your focus and that should be his focus. Anything less is not a genuine FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship. It might be D&S bedroom games but it is not sincere FemDom女性支配 — female domination.