Q&A Forum - June/July 2020 (The best of Elise)

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Those triggers are not necessarily leather and whips. They could be, but those triggers could be many different activities that are discussed on this site. Not only is this beneficial to the male as far a motivating him to serve the woman’s needs outside the bedroom but it is also beneficial to the woman as her sexuality may discover many hidden desires that she had no idea existed. Exploration and D&S can open the female to a sexuality that goes way beyond traditional sex. The woman may discover areas of her nature she had no idea existed and her sexual fulfillment may reach levels she never dared dreamed of. D&S is not just about a man’s fantasies but it is also about a woman opening herself to her own sexual desires and dominant urges.

So next time, don’t look at a D&S session from your husband’s perspective but rather focus on it from your perspective. Relax with it and have fun. Allow that Tigress within to become unleashed and go with it. Relish in your power and explore your female power. Notice the effect your sexual power has on your husband. Flaunt it, celebrate it, and embrace it. Traditional sex is a wonderful foundation to build upon but now it is time to redecorate and to remodel your relationship.