Q&A Forum - June 2005

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Q. I love your site, I loved your book, I am enjoying Predominant and I did all your procedures and my husband and I thoroughly enjoyed them. We are closer than we have ever been. Our love is very strong and we owe a lot of that to the intimacy we gained from the twenty-two weeks we did your procedures (one a week for twenty-two weeks).

In spite of everything, I still feel I need more guidance. We are still not where I want us to be as a couple. My husband is wonderful but I know he needs more training. My evaluation of your procedures is that they were a wonderful hands on learning tool to engaging in female domination in the bedroom, and that brought us tremendous intimacy. The close bond you talk about has been formed and strengthened as we went through this process. Be that as it may, what I didn’t accomplish with your procedures that I was hoping to accomplish was getting more submission and more obedience from my husband outside the bedroom. Maybe he is just a hard case but he is not where I want him to be when it comes to being cooperative when I assign him chores and being obedient when I give him orders. He has improved and he is a much better husband than he was prior to us getting involved in this lifestyle, but he still isn’t what I would call a submissive顺从 — willing to obey and he definitely ain’t no slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience.