Q&A Forum - June 2005

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Of course, all of this is superficial. I believe that it is ultimately a woman’s dominant attitude that will touch the core of a man’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature but men are visually oriented so often it is the outer characteristics of a woman that initially stir a man’s submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. That is why fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing outfits are an important aspect of the female domination lifestyle, especially in the early stages. Men are visually oriented and just as a man might be drawn to a woman wearing leather, another man might be drawn to a woman simply because she is a brunette with brown eyes, and another man might be drawn to a woman simply because she is Asian or African American or Caucasian. Each man is unique with a unique nature and that is why beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.

That is the explanation for a physical attraction to a dominant woman. Of course there can also be deeper psychological reasons. In your case, there could be a historic or ancestral reason for your fantasy. I discussed this is in a post a few years ago which is now in my Q&A archives. I wrote in that post: