Q&A Forum - June 2005

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A. Your best bet is to look amongst Pro Doms who have this skill. The bullwhip requires practice and not many women are experienced or skilled in the use of a bullwhip. There are some of us out there (yes, I own one) but finding a lifestyle dominant woman is enough of a challenge without limiting your search to a woman who knows how to use a bullwhip. You would be better off visiting Pro Doms who have this skill and perhaps one of them might know of a woman who is looking for a lifestyle relationship with a masochistic male who enjoys the bullwhip. Since it takes skill, a woman who is skilled is also a prime candidate to do demonstrations at BDSM events. Thus, she meets other women who have the same interest.

Networking yourself is the key to finding others with similar interests. I would not recommend placing personal ads on the Internet because what you are interested in requires someone who knows what she is doing. I don’t think you want to trust a compete stranger that answered your ad to string you up and use a bullwhip on you. That is why I would suggest seeing a reputable Pro Dom who has the reputation of knowing what she is doing with this particular skill. Then network yourself from there by asking her if she knows of any events where there will be demonstrations for other women who are interested in learning this D&S skill.