Q&A Forum - June/July 2015

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She is hesitant and that shows her wonderful character. She is a woman and she cares for people, she cares for you, and she does not want to see any male being mistreated. It is that attitude that will ensure that most women will not misuse their power. That is the balance and that is why men can trust most women with that power. The soft, caring, nurturing side of the female nature brings balance to the dominant side of the female nature.

Your wife is still new to this lifestyle and you need to allow her to experiment with her female power so she can become comfortable in the dominant role. Your position is to encourage her and to support her. Let her know that you enjoy her power and you enjoy it when she dominates you. Let her know that you enjoy it when she punishes you and disciplines you because it yields the fruit of peace and contentment. You may not always enjoy the act while it transpires but the long-term effects of the FemDom女性支配 — female domination activity is what you enjoy and need.

Once your wife understands this, she will become more at ease. She will take the upper hand if she knows that it makes the relationship a win/win relationship. She wants you to be as happy and fulfilled as she is, and that should demonstrate to you both why she needs to be in charge. I wish you both continued growth.