Q&A Forum - June/July 2015

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I once heard a preacher many years ago give an analogy on how when he was a teenager growing up in the southwest, whenever he and his friend would go fishing or hiking, his mother always admonished him to “watch out for rattlesnakes”. She wasn’t telling him to stop what he was planning and instead go hunting for rattlesnakes, but she was simply saying that while he was out having fun, he needed to be aware of his surroundings. In other words, the snakes were not supposed to be his focus, the fishing and the hiking was his focus, but he still had to be mindful that snakes were out there.

That is how it is with this lifestyle. Female Domination can be a wonderful experience and a marvelous lifestyle. It can add romance and spice to the bedroom and add so much excitement to both the sex life and the relationship as a whole, plus it can empower the woman to lead the relationship in a positive way. Yet, while a couple is having fun and experiencing all this excitement, it is wise to occasionally take inventory and ensure that both parties are staying rooted and grounded in reality. This is important because FemDom女性支配 — female domination encompasses and engulfs the mental and spiritual as well as the sexual and physical. That is why in my books, while I am always encouraging couples to embrace the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle based on loving female authority, I also admonish people to “watch out for the rattlesnakes”. Make sure you don’t get things out of balance where it goes from healthy to becoming unhealthy.