Q&A Forum - June/July 2018

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Q. Dear Elise, I've been visiting your site quite frequently. I'm not into some of the more intense concepts but do like to practice orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial as a means to get more housework / chores out of my husband. I currently allow him relief once a week and late Sunday afternoon seems to be the ideal time. Most of the work at our house is done on the weekends - we both work. He's much more receptive to doing the work when he's been denied several days usually 5 or 6. He will on occasion plead with me on Saturday or Sunday morning to bring him to completion but I'll stick to my guns and make sure the bathrooms are spotless and the laundry has been done. When Sunday afternoon rolls around I reward him by manually massaging him to completion. I have him stand naked before me and take my place on the corner of the bed. He's a tall man and I usually request he squats slightly so my arms don't get tired. He's very willing to accommodate me on this.

I've run into a problem that seems to be recurring more frequently. On weekday mornings there are occasions, when he returns from his shower, with a full erection. He pleads with me that "he can't go to work like this" and wants me to bring him to completion. I feel compelled to help him because he doesn't need to be going to work in that condition. But when the weekend rolls around he's much less receptive to my housework demands. How would you handle this problem? Is there a way to bring the erection down without allowing the orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax?