Q&A Forum - March 2008 (The best of Elise)

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You do not have to embrace D&S or anything you feel is not compatible with your Christian walk. But female domination is about more than D&S. You can serve your wife sacrificially and selflessly and thus live a life that is compatible with both your Christianity and your desire for female domination. It comes back to how you view your wife. If you will elevate her, respect her and prefer her, you will not dehumanize her into the object of your sexual fantasies. But don’t be surprised that while doing this, you will find yourself back into the state of mind that is known as subspace. When the desire for female domination comes upon you, do not confuse it with your sexual addiction but rather channel it into the loving and intimate service of your wife. You can be free of the one while embracing the other. I do wish you the very best and I hope you find what you are seeking. God Bless!

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