Q&A Forum - March 2011 (Best of Elise)

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We have sex according to her moods, at times that means once per week and at other times that means 5 times per week. I almost always want to have sex everyday. Therefore I am in a kind of orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial 3-4 days per week (usually).

Outside of the bedroom we live a vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink life. I treat her with the utmost respect and she treats me with the same kind of respect. I do most of the chores around the house, clean the bathrooms, do dishes, laundry, all yard work and most errands (running to the bank, post office, groceries etc). I manage all the finances and she sometimes will buy things for herself. This makes me happy if she is happy. Often I am encouraged to do my chores in the nude and often maintain an erection the entire time. She just smiles and laughs.

To our friends and family we are a regular normal couple and that is they way we both prefer things to be. I'm extremely happy as is she. We have been together now for 10 years (including those years before marriage).

I do not judge anyone on this site for the way in which they live there life. I just want people to know it is possible to be very happy and fulfilled while keeping S&M between a couple in the bedroom and the privacy of their minds.