Q&A Forum - March 2012 (The best of Elise)

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Allow yourself to experience a number of sessions in order to allow these fires within to be fanned. A relationship with a dominant woman (be it a professional relationship or a personal relationship) will let you know if your desire for loving female authority is sexual or non-sexual. If it is non-sexual, perhaps a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship is needed in your life to bring you emotional fulfillment that only a maternal nature can give. And if it has seeds of sexuality, they will grow and you will come to realize that you are either bisexual or in need of a strong woman to fulfill you both emotionally and sexually.

As a side note to your most excellent question, I have counseled a number of men over the years who originally thought they were gay only to discover later in life that what they really desired sexually was Female Domination. Some men know at a very early age that they are not attracted to the societal model of a dominant male and a submissive顺从 — willing to obey female relationship, and thus they experiment with homosexuality for they realize they do not fit the traditional model of masculinity. But when confronted with the alternative lifestyle of FemDom女性支配 — female domination, they find that there is an attraction to the opposite gender but it was blocked by societal roles and expectations.