Q&A Forum - March 2012 (The best of Elise)

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The BDSM event might have been a culture shock for the two of you but you lived through it and like you said, you had an educational experience. Your wife had a revelation about her gender as well as the differences between female domination and male domination, and that revelation alone was worth the weekend. She may not realize it just yet, but she experienced growth and as uncomfortable as it was for her, it was another step in her journey as she continues to blossom into a confident, dominant woman.

I tend to agree with your wife’s assessment about the potential self-image issues of some female subs顺从者 — a submissive person. I am all about encouraging women to fulfill their potential, to dream big, to develop a healthy self-image and to expect to be treated like the superior gender from the men in their lives. A man can most certainly engage in D&S activities with a woman where he is the top in the bedroom IF the woman desires this sexually. But the male must do this out of a heart of love and respect for the woman. I advocate for a man to worship崇拜侍奉 — adoring service a woman for her entire nature and to get to know her intimately; body, mind and spirit.