Q&A Forum - March 2015

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A. The biggest challenge in submitting to someone is when they require that you do endure things that you do not want to endure. While a FemDom女性支配 — female domination marriage must be win/win to be successful, that does not mean every activity and every demand made by the dominant wife will be pleasing to the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male. The overall relationship needs to be win/win and I think if you would be honest, you love that she controls you. It fulfills a need within you, even if there are times you are uncomfortable. That simply goes with the territory.

Hopefully, you have built the kind of relationship where you are free to communicate your needs to her, be they spoken directly to her or written in a journal which she can read at her leisure. Trust comes into play where you trust her judgment even if she rules against your requests.

She has afforded you the right to inform her when your chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device is causing you any health or physical discomfort. However, she has denied your request that you be let out of the device if it makes you feel uncomfortable at the office or at the health club. You said yourself that she has every right to do this so you need to submit to her decision and try to the best of your ability to adapt.