Q&A Forum - March 2015

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You need to use your creative mind and devote your time to doing special projects and tasks for her that will bring joy into her life. Buy her a special gift or write her a poem. Do that household project that she has been asking of you for weeks, if not months. Do some extra chores around the house. Give her a massage按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it or draw her a bubble bath and bathe her while she sips a glass of wine or her favorite drink. Allow her to make the decisions within the marriage and yield to her judgments, rather you agree with it or not.

Change your focus and she will begin to change her focus. That does not mean she will want to don a Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman outfit right away, but if you devote yourself to serving her than perhaps that will alter her perspective and she will begin to experience the advantages of being the dominant partner. Once that happens, the transfer to D&S in the bedroom will be much easier and will seem more natural to her. Take care.