Q&A Forum - March 2016 (Best of Elise)

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My husband's arguments can be persuasive, and he is correct that I did cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers him before. How can I regain the moral high ground on this issue? Even though he's been my submissive顺从 — willing to obey for many years, I feel I don't really have any good reasons to refuse or refute him. I would appreciate any suggestions.

A. Your moral high ground is that you are in authority over him and thus you made the decision, not him. He has every right to share his fantasies and desires with you but he has no right to pressure you into the cuckolding lifestyle. He also has no right to visit the past unless you allow it. If you do not wish to discuss the past, then he needs to honor your decision.

On the one hand, it is great that the FemDom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle has taken what was once a negative in your husband’s mind (your infidelity) and has translated that into a positive (the pleasurable desire to be cuckolded). So that is a good thing for him. However, on the other hand, the memories of the past are a negative to you, thus as your submissive顺从 — willing to obey, your husband’s focus needs to be on pleasing you and obeying you.