Q&A Forum - March 2019

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The bottom line is that you enjoy being an ashtray because it makes you feel humiliated and as is the case with most aspects of objectification play, you know you can never be a woman’s equal when she uses you as her ashtray. This elevates her in your eyes to superior status and your submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature enjoys it. To the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male's psyche, women who smoke give off an image of self-confidence. They are portraying a relaxed, carefree, and in charge attitude and you are only worthy to be her ashtray. Of course that is not true but you like it when a woman reduces you to this level in your submission.