Q&A Forum - March 2019

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Being used as an ashtray is not an act of intimacy. So I would assume that you do not seek intimacy but you want the humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose aspects of female domination. That is why you mentioned licking the soles of a woman’s shoes and boots. In your mind, she is objectifying you, using you to clean her shoes and boots of dirt and grime. You do not want to lick her boots for the taste and smell of the leather and you do not view the boots as a sexual extension of her feet, calves and legs. Once again, you feel unworthy of intimacy with her so you feel you only deserve to be at the soles of her boots as you are only worthy to be her boot cleaner and her boot shiner.

As with any FemDom女性支配 — female domination activity, there can be a variety of motivations. That is important to remember. When a man tells a woman he wants to lick her boots, the reasoning can vary from man to man. I created a procedure dedicated to boot domination but it was within the framework of: