Q&A Forum - March 2019

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My real question is about chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm devices. I want to tell her in a good way that I have a problem with masturbation but I don´t want to dishonor her by continuing with this practice. I want to ask her if she would place me in chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm and explore her power over me that will also be reflected in other areas. How can I do this in a good way? Is this a good idea to do as a natural beginning of a relationship?

Thank you again for such an excellent book. I hope every male creature on earth will become a woman’s slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience.

A. It sounds like your heart is in the right place and she is a blessed girl to be dating a man with your humble heart. However, you would be wise to read the entry above about etiquette. That should be the beginning point of your relationship. Build the foundation first, build the friendship with her and complete her intellectually. I think it is great that you have yet to have sex with her. If couples become intimate too soon, they allow the physical aspects to complicate the mental and emotional connection. Sex will come but the beginning of a relationship should be about the other areas of compatibility.