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A few years ago a female friend of mine posed the question to me “Why are men always horny?” After thinking about it, I reached the answer “Because we had to be”. Thousands of years ago as humans were evolving the survival of the species was of the utmost importance. Women are only capable of getting pregnant on certain days throughout the year. To compensate for this the male must always be ready for sex. If the male was only interested in sex part of the time, then the chances of a successful conception would be small. Thus, those males that desired sex all the time passed on their genes and, over thousands of years that quality became instilled in the male members of our species. Now fast forward to the world today. In most cases in Western countries men and women consensually agree upon sex rather than it occurring by way of force, as it almost certainly did on the African plains thousands of years ago. Via contraception women or couples can also have control over when to bear children. So society has changed – the survival of the species is no longer an issue. However that innate and constant desire for sex is still drilled into the male brain at birth. All a woman has to do is decide to turn it around and use it to her advantage. Oh, how we need our precious orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax. And the lengths to which we’ll go for those few moments of pleasure. And interestingly, it doesn’t stop with just pure orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax. There is an extreme psychological pleasure associated with being inside of and climaxing in a woman that masturbation cannot duplicate. So, interestingly, what had originated as a means to ensure survival of the species seems to have become our greatest weakness.