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Could it be that you got your hopes up that your wife was going to embrace this lifestyle but as she asks questions (a natural occurrence) or as she critiques certain aspects of your submission, you have become a little disappointed? Or could you be having difficulty perceiving her in the dominant role, which leads to an internal struggle within yourself?

If you told me that she was dominating you beyond what you wanted or if you told me that she had grown so much in her dominance that you were having trouble pleasing her or that you enjoyed being in subspace so much that you had trouble dealing with life outside the boundaries of your FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship, then I would be inclined to think your lack of drive was related to your involvement with the Female Domination lifestyle. But you have only been at this for a few weeks and it doesn’t sound as if your wife is taking you to places you don’t want to go. Could it be that this short experiment was all about you and she was going along just to please you? It seems unusual for her to so easily agree to end your FemDom女性支配 — female domination experiment if she was enjoying it as much as you say.

This lifestyle should motivate you outside the home because you want to please your wife in all areas of your life. What goes on in the bedroom should motivate you outside the bedroom. That is where the discipline comes in. A weekly discipline session could do wonders as she evaluates your performance of the past week and motives you for the week ahead.