Q&A Forum - Best of Elise

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Men are submissive顺从 — willing to obey to those they love, but I can assure you that is not the case outside the marriage. Here they will fight to the bitter end, especially to protect their families. Men's nature is to protect, women's nature to nurture. The protection nature of man is wherein the submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature arises, not because they feel inferior but because they love their wife and family and want to give them the best they can. The same way as a parent gives to a spoiled child. I realize that man comes in all kinds of favors, the same as women, but the overwhelming fact remains, it is the protection nature of men that surrenders to the female. You yourself stated that woman have always controlled men in marriage, even when men were more educated than woman. So therefore, the superior brain and education has little to do with submissiveness.

These are my thoughts on the subject and you may disagree but I know from a man's perspective that's how I view this issue. Today society is changing and it may well evolve to a female led society. I pray that it does not change the character of man, because if it does, women may lose the most important allies that women have and that is the protection nature of man. As you know men thrive on competition, it’s their nature. As women become more competitive, will man lose his submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature? It’s an interesting question.