Q&A Forum - Best of Elise

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I personally would like to be in a relationship where the female was the dominant person (in her soft but firm feminine way), and I would willingly be subservient to her. In fact I will admit that the notion does excite me. Certainly I have no issue at all about that sexually, as long as my needs are also met.

But on a broader relationship level, I would not be prepared to hand over all power to her. I would be prepared to accept her decisions up to a point, but would equally expect my comments on matters of importance to me to be taken seriously by way of discussion, and by mutual agreement decide on a course of action. I don’t think I am alone among the male population on this one.

You see I do not believe the male need for submission is all-encompassing for most men. I believe men will allow their women to take greater control of their relationships, as many have now, and that this will be a good thing for the relationship itself, and yes, quite possibly feed into the needs of both genders.

My only issue is with what I see as some of the extreme elements of your theory that I, and I believe most rational men, will find are unpalatable and hence unlikely to occur.