Q&A Forum - May 2004

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You must show a woman the benefits of this lifestyle by serving her before you try to educate her through books, websites and other resources. You would be wise to open her mind and heart first by showing her the benefits of a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship. Otherwise she will conclude that you are only trying to get her to become the object of your fantasy.

Your question also dictates how you are trying to control the situation. You desire to pick and choose what your wife views because you want to control her reaction. This is understandable as it relates to your fear of rejection. But nonetheless this is not an acceptable attitude for a submissive顺从 — willing to obey male. It is understandable that you want her to see this lifestyle the same way you see it and thus you want to keep control over the situation. But never forget that I am the author of this book, not you.

I decided upon the cover for my book and I’ve explained in a previous Q&A my thought process as it relates to the book cover. I believe the cover is romantic, erotic and tastefully done. My book is not a stealth project where I plant subliminal messages into the minds of women so they become the objects of their husband’s sexual fantasies. My book is an honest and open look at the female domination lifestyle. I’ve received very positive feedback from women, both novices and experienced women. But a woman needs to be interested in this topic on some level in order for her to become educated.