Q&A Forum - May 2004

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I’ve discussed ways a brown shower can be explored between loving and committed people who are rooted and grounded in reality and who understand what is safe and what is risky. Brown showers must never be ingested or else it is risky and unhealthy and thus that line is crossed and the practice becomes a perversion. The key is knowing the boundaries and staying within those safe and acceptable boundaries. What two people do in the privacy of their home is nobody’s business as long as their lifestyle and sexual practices are safe, sane and consensual. Unsafe and non-consensual acts are a perversion.

Just because a person has the fantasy of being the giver or receiver of a Golden shower黄金浴 — peeing on a partner or a Brown shower that does not automatically classify them as a pervert. You need to understand the root of these desires. Within most submissive顺从 — willing to obey men, the root is the desire to be sexually dominated by a woman. It is the same root as most other D&S activities but merely finds its expression through these particular fantasies. I have discussed these desires and how they relate to the overall male desire to be dominated by a woman in past Q&A’s, as well as in my book. I did not duck the topic of Golden Showers黄金浴 — peeing on a partner in my book. It is examined and discussed in my book. I would advise that you re-read the chapter on Mental Domination, as well as reading through the archives in my Q&A forum for a better understanding on these particular topics.