Q&A Forum - May 2004

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What is the appeal of this activity? For the submissive顺从 — willing to obey male, it is the feeling of being under the control of a dominant woman. Pony Play combines humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play with the feeling of being in bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained. The male is reduced to less than a human being and is treated by the superior female as a mere animal. The man exists for the woman’s comfort and convenience and is regarded as no more than a commodity. This is humiliating for the man and that humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose may be mentally and sexually stimulating as the man enjoys being used and being controlled by the female.

If a harness绑带 — straps that hold a toy on the body or a saddle is placed on the male pony, the man may experience the trill of being in bondage捆绑 — being tied or restrained. He losses control as he is forced to go in the direction and at the desired speed of the female, as he is manipulated by the harness绑带 — straps that hold a toy on the body or the bit in his mouth or the sting of her whip or the cut of her spurs. The woman has all the power in this scenario and the man is totally under the command and the control of the superior female.