Q&A Forum - May 2008 (The best of Elise series)

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My wife is pretty vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink (other than loving the chastity belt贞操带 — a locked garment that blocks sex), so things like giving me a spanking aren't going to work. Nor will handcuffing me at the time of my orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax.

We have tried things like saying that my failure to lock myself back up promptly will cause the extension of my next lock-up period, or that it will mean that I can't get penetrative sex on my next release. But these haven't worked all that well. I think I need a motivation that is more immediate (in order to overcome my natural inclination to stay unlocked and keep masturbating).

Do you have any ideas for us? We would be so grateful! Thank you very much.

A. Yes, I have an idea and it is really radical. Why not lock yourself back up because you love your wife and want to obey her? Why should she have to handcuff you or spank you? She requires it of you. Do you brush your teeth every day? Do you take a shower every day? Do you go to work, whether you feel like it or not?

We all have to do things in life whether we feel like it or not. You introduced this lifestyle to your wife, she wants you to wear the chastity禁欲 — being kept from orgasm device, you want to obey her, so put the device back on. It really is that simple. I can’t give you a magic formula if you are going to be lazy and disobedient. Submission must be a willing submission and an act of love and devotion. You will wear the device because your wife demands this out of you.