Q&A Forum - May 2008 (The best of Elise series)

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The reason I do not believe in the correlation between pain and subspace is because different D&S activities will transport a man to the submissive顺从 — willing to obey zone and most of these activities do not involve physical pain. A man need not be a masochist to enter subspace. Humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play will transport a man to subspace. Being cuckolded (a husband who willfully accepts his wife's infidelity) transports men to subspace. Strap-on穿戴式假阳具 — a toy penis worn in a harness play, light discipline, worshipping the female body, even the sight of a woman in fetish恋物 — a strong sexual focus on one thing attire will transport some men to subspace. So what do these activities have in common? The mental stimulation of a man surrendering his will over to the woman.”

In my opinion, all men are capable of achieving subspace if they will let go and if they will surrender to a woman. Thank you for the insightful question.