Q&A Forum - May 2009 (best of Elise)

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You chose to join her site and her site was as advertised. I am sure you were not disappointed but always remember that the woman in the pictures and in those video clips has many sides to her personality. Just because a woman is a Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman and just because she ‘loves her job’, that does not mean she is not a very caring and loving person. After all, she is a woman and thus multifaceted and complex.

Some of the most sadistic women I have known (sadistic as in being very harsh during D&S sessions with men) were also some of the kindest and compassionate women when it came to caring for innocent animals and children. One woman I knew gave 20% of all the proceeds from her sessions to the Animal Welfare Society. So never judge a book by its cover and never confuse compassion with what does on during a D&S session.

Q. Elise, what would be your recommendation for a woman who has lost most of her passion for the femdom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle? My husband and I have been living a femdom女性支配 — female domination marriage for five years and it has been great. I love what this way of life has done for our marriage.

We were on the brink of divorce prior to him sharing this lifestyle with me. I was nervous at first but the B&D and S&M in the bedroom really added zest to our sex life. It was all so new and fresh and exciting. However, over time we have both lost some interest, mostly me. Now when I decide to have a discipline session with my husband, I have to really motivate myself and it feels more like work than sex.