Q&A Forum - May 2010 (The best of Elise)

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I will tell you from my experience that your desire for female domination will not subside and it will not go away. You can ignore it and resist it as a man who chooses to live a chaste life for religious purposes but your desire to submit to women is separate than your pornographic addiction. You can’t see that because the two have been joined within your psyche but female domination is not pornography. It is the male desire for loving female authority.

Sexual addiction is a very real but rarely discussed problem in our society. There are various forms of sexual addiction, one of them being an addiction to pornography. With the ease of access to erotic material in our society, a person can become addicted to the point of not being able to relate to others in a form of personal intimacy. Your sexless marriage was no doubt a symptom of your pornographic addiction. I applaud you for undergoing counseling and for seeking help for your addiction. Recognizing that you have a problem is the first step toward recovery.