Q&A Forum - May 2010 (The best of Elise)

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Words can stimulate submissive顺从 — willing to obey triggers and a lot of men like it when their wives push their submissive顺从 — willing to obey buttons. An example would be if a wife is thinking of cuckolding her husband. She might not even be serious about doing it but she may play along because it gets him excited and she can control him through his arousal. So she may say, “I might have to find me a real man to fuck because you are not worthy to fuck me.” Such talk is designed to stir the submission nature in her husband. It does not mean that she thinks that other men are superior to her husband. Truth be told, most women who cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers their husbands view their husbands as equal or even superior to their lovers, at least socially if not sexually. Sex is about physical pleasure whereas marriage is about social and intellectual compatibility. A woman might seek out another man for sex or another man for some form of servitude but the one she chooses to build a life with is the man she enjoys being with the most.

So don’t take these things so literally. Most women do not spend time evaluating the superiority of one man over the other. A female supremacist views all men as inferior, but that does not mean she does not respect men nor like men. If you are a man who is eager to serve women then you are in fact a “real man”. Take care.