Q&A Forum - May 2012 (The best of Elise)

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Q. I have a question regarding orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial. Me and my wife have decided to pursue a femdom女性支配 — female domination lifestyle, which we both think is great, but she is still in the starting steps. I never was submissive顺从 — willing to obey before, but I had a changing event that brought me to the realization that I was always meant for this. Rather than delve too far into my past, my question concerns the present.

My wife and I have practiced complete orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial for me for more than a year. This started as an exploration of tantric sexuality, but ended with my complete submission to her. I realize now that when I use to have orgasms高潮 — the sexual climax, that after an orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax, my energy was very low and I had almost no attention to her needs, sometimes for several days. I love being able to go without orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax and save that energy for my wife. It keeps me aroused, keeps me completely focused on her pleasure, and keeps me completely submissive顺从 — willing to obey. As a result, I became both a better husband and a better lover.

I've already learned to do all the cooking, cleaning, and to service her anytime she desires with massages按摩 — rubbing the body to ease it, oral sex, or anything else she might be in the mood for. We spend a lot more time together now, and she likes getting flowers, love letters, and poems all the time. I really can't stop myself - this has brought out a completely new and passionate romantic side of me.