Q&A Forum - May 2012 (The best of Elise)

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A. Your fantasy could be a physical desire or it could have deeper psychological implications. It might simply be a result of you being physically attracted to white women. Perhaps you find white women to project a certain blend of dominance that connects to your particular submissive顺从 — willing to obey nature. It is a common occurrence for a man of one race to desire to be dominated by a woman of another race. I receive lots of e-mail from white males who desire to be dominated by African-American women. I also know white and black men who like to be dominated by Asian women. The extra racial dimension could add a little extra stimulation to the male psyche. The reasons for this are as vast as the sands on the beach. Again, it could be as simple as a physical attraction. A man might simply find Asian women to be more beautiful and thus it is his sexual attraction that stirs his submissive顺从 — willing to obey desires. You may find white women to be more beautiful than other women as that is just your preference, the same way one man might find a blonde to be more appealing than a brunette.