Q&A Forum - May 2014

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See above for my thoughts on a man taking his wife's name. It is becoming more common and this trend will continue as society evolves toward female authority. As far as the finances go, this is a big and important step, and one that I only recommend within marriage where trust has been established. A lot of men fantasize about being financially dominated by a woman but the reality is this is a very serious step, not to be taken lightly. It demonstrates total trust and submission from the man. By surrendering all possessions and finances to your wife, you are laying down at her feet your time, talents and worth. Again, Bravo to you and your wife.

Q. Dear Ms. Sutton, I want to thank you for the time and dedication you put into your insightful website. What I have learned from you has changed my life and, indirectly, it is changing my wife's too. Congratulations also on the publication of your wonderful book.

I have been following your teachings for the last year to draw out my wife's true dominant nature. She is very strong and assertive and has a dominating personality outside the bedroom, but due to her upbringing and a repressive society our sex life has always been very conventional and vanilla普通性爱 — sex without kink. Based on your guidance, I am doing my utmost to treat her like a queen at all times. This is natural to both of us and has come very easily.