Q&A Forum - May 2018 (The best of Elise)

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A. I think it is fantastic that you want to go deeper into this lifestyle with your husband. You should want more. You should always strive for more power and more control because that will bring growth to you as a dominant woman, which in turn will bring more growth to him as a submissive顺从 — willing to obey man. I have been at this for a long time and I am still learning and growing. There are so many levels to this lifestyle. I am amazed at those couples that think they have “peaked” and there is nothing else to explore. We all hit peaks and valleys. We all hit walls and we all need new breakthroughs to get to those new levels. We all get stagnate at times and we all need encouraged and motivated at times. But never stop growing and never be content. Keep pushing those limits and keep stretching those boundaries. Just make sure you are always rooted and grounded in reality and always make sure you are knowledgeable about health and safety risks. But never stop in your pursuit for new experiences and new levels.