Q&A Forum - May 2018 (The best of Elise)

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Do you agree that permanent orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial is appropriate in our situation, and if so, what can I do to reassure my wife that this is something I want to do and am ok with? Despite communicating my feelings, I think she thinks that I don't really want that, and that I am making too large of a sacrifice; but to me, this is not a sacrifice at all, it is the ultimate expression of my love for her, and a gift for both of us to be blessed with. Thank you for your time and wisdom.

A. Orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial must be the topic of the month. A couple of entries ago a gentleman asked if orgasm高潮 — the sexual climax denial can be incorporated within a loving relationship. I think your story answers him better than anything I could have written. Not only can it be a part of a loving relationship, I think in most cases it will enhance the romance and strengthen the relationship because it will help a man to keep his focus on his Queen.

Permanent denial is an exciting fantasy but not so easy to implement in reality (see my comments on fantasy vs. reality above). My husband and I have discussed permanent denial and it does have a strong erotic element and a powerful FemDom女性支配 — female domination aspect to it. The thought of a woman permanently denying her husband while she enjoys as much sexual pleasure as she wants does stir my libido and it also excites my husband. But where the spirit is willing, the flesh is weak. Again, fantasy does not always easily translate into reality due to the limitations of the body and biological realities.