Q&A Forum - May 2018 (The best of Elise)

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We all have our fears and bad things do happen to good people. But the meditation of fear is known as worrying and worrying has negative effects on our minds and our bodies. The opposite of fear is faith and faith has a positive effect on our minds and our bodies. Faith in God, faith in your spouse, faith in your neighbor, faith in the airplane pilot who is flying you across the country, faith in the overall goodness of people is what gets all of us out of bed each day. Otherwise we would be consumed in our fears.

Some people are more fearful that others (pessimists compared to optimists). People have unique phobias and hang-ups, some people are adventuresome and risk takers whereas other people are cautious and are more comfortable playing it safe. So I wouldn’t group all submissive顺从 — willing to obey men in the same category as this particular man. Some men I have encountered are too much of a risk taker and they need to be a little more cautious. The man who tells his new girlfriend that he wants to be her slave奴隶 — a person kept in total obedience is definitely a risk taker but he isn’t very wise. In contrast, the man who lives his entire adult life with the desire for female domination but never attempts to introduce the lifestyle to his female companion due to fear ends up cheating himself out of a potential wonderful FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship with many wonderful romantic and exciting experiences. It is Ok to be cautious but being overly cautious is to allow fear to rob you of the joys of life itself.