Q&A Forum - November 2009 (The best of Elise)

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Q. Hello Ms. Sutton, I'm a guy but I thought I'd ask your advice about certain male traits. Why is it so much easier to humiliate guys than girls? We were always taught that men were emotionally stronger than women, so why is it guys get their feelings hurt so much faster than women and are embarrassed/humiliated so easily?

How important do you think Humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose Play is within a FemDom女性支配 — female domination relationship?

A. Men are easier to humiliate because of the fragile male ego. Men put much more worth in their ego and their pride. Men are far more likely to care what other men think about them, than women care about what other women think. Men are more competitive and they gain too much esteem from their conquests in life (accomplishments, awards, trophies, etc.). Men want to win at all costs, even if they have to cheat, because it’s not how you play the game but whether you win or lose.

Men will even date a woman purely for looks. If other men find her attractive, a man will date her, regardless if they are socially or intellectually compatible. A woman is just another trophy to the male ego. All of these reasons are why it is so easy for a woman to humiliate a man. Men are easy targets because of the fragile male ego. And the easiest target is the male penis阴茎 — the male sex organ. Humiliate a man about his penis阴茎 — the male sex organ and a woman strikes the male ego right where he lives.