Q&A Forum - November 2010 (Best of Elise)

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I think it is horrible what this woman did to your husband. Experiences like this are what gives the opponents of D&S the legal footing to try to come after this lifestyle and the profession of the Dominatrix女支配者 — a dominant woman. However, thankfully these types of bad experiences are rare and are the exception and not the norm.

There is another possibility here and I would be remiss if I didn’t mention it. It is possible that your husband requested this kind of scenario. If he signed a contract and if he told her that he was an advanced player and if he requested to play this game, then it is possible that she is an experienced Dom who has successfully engaged in these types of scenarios before, but this time something went wrong. I can’t condone the use of drugs but it is possible she specialized in interrogation scenarios. That may be why she had him sign a contract. Anytime an intense session takes place to this degree, something can go wrong. She did call 9-1-1 so it is doubtful she wanted anything bad to happen to him. I am not making excuses for her but you would be amazed what some men ask for in a D&S session and some Doms will comply as long as the client accepts responsibility for the potential dangers.