Q&A Forum - November 2010 (Best of Elise)

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The act of cuckolding is about giving the wife the experience that she can than use as a mental image to dominate her husband's thoughts. It is not so much about sexual fulfillment. There may be some sexual fulfillment but the sexual act with a lover is only temporary whereas the using of the act as a tool for mental domination of the husband can be on going. Both the wife and the husband enjoy these mind games, thus cuckolding becomes sex between the psyches of the wife and her cuckolded husband.

Keep in mind, I am talking about FemDom女性支配 — female domination couples that choose to embrace cuckolding. Most FemDom女性支配 — female domination couples do not practice cuckolding, or they might only engage in it as a fantasy element without ever actually going through with it. From my experience, men fantasize about being cuckolded much more than women fantasize about cuckolding their husbands. That is why it is vitally important that the woman makes the cuckolding decision and does not allow her fantasy-driven husband to manipulate her into having a sexual affair with another man. The cuckolding dynamic will only work if the woman decides of her own freewill to make her husband into a cuckold绿帽男 — a man whose wife has other lovers. And, of course, the husband must be sexually inclined toward humiliation羞辱 — shame given on purpose play. I hope this answers your question.